i thinks my blog needs a new layout..or rather...my own personalized banner at least

time for some update...but the thing is...cant change banner till i properly washed and polished my lovely datto and camwhore her and find the best pictures and pour some creativity in it...huhu

btw,

something caught my mind recently. my grandma's brother's and sisters often visit her house..its almost a daily/weekly affair...

well i dont mind them visiting bcoz else my grandma's indon kakak will be too freee and entertaining guests will keep her moving abit and most importantly my grandma will have some company to talk to la.

but the thing is there is the 1 of my grandma punya brother...have this habit of coming to other people's house and starts to argue and shouts within his own family members... he and the wife and the son and their kakak and their 3 little grandchildrens...oh man.... even i so close to my grandma and my aunts as i practically stayed and grew up with them, i also never raised a voice at their house..merajuk sure got la...but never to the extent of cursing and shouting at each other ba.

some people are very scary indeed...no matter how close you are as a family member, so long as you dont stay at that particular house, its not right to shout or fight there ar. its something like embarassing yourself in a public area already. some people very pandai judge others...but they forgot to judge themselves. i guess thats the weakness of some hokkien people....'kua-soi lang' number one....but forgot that they themselves are actually not so civilised afterall.

or maybe its just their way or im raised in a rather 'quiet' family. my grandma, aunts, parents me n my sis are quite annoyed by those acts....it doesnt happen once...but a few times already.

so guys n gals....when you go visiting others house, dont fight among yourselves or raise voices or what...the hosts might just get annoyed by your attitude and u're just spoiling your own reputation ba. save your arguements or fights inside your own house or area. hah